Frequently Asked Questions
Have questions about therapy, neurodivergence, or getting started? Explore the topics below to learn more about my approach, services, and what you can expect when working together.
Finding the Right Fit
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You might be a good fit for my approach if you're looking to better understand yourself, explore your experiences, and develop ways of living that feel more authentic and sustainable.
I particularly enjoy working with people who have recently discovered they're autistic or have ADHD, are exploring whether they might be neurodivergent, or are making sense of experiences they've had throughout their lives.
Many of the people I work with are navigating masking, burnout, sensory differences, executive functioning challenges, or the exhaustion of trying to meet expectations that don't align with their needs.
My approach is collaborative and exploratory. Together, we can work toward understanding your experiences, recognizing your needs and capacity, and developing meaningful changes that fit your life.
You don't need to have everything figured out before we begin. We can explore those questions together.
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Finding the right therapist involves more than finding someone who works with your particular concerns. It's also about finding an approach that fits your needs, preferences, and goals.
My practice may not be the best fit if you're seeking:
Psychological testing or medication management. I provide psychotherapy but do not offer formal psychological or neuropsychological evaluations or prescribe medications. I can, however, coordinate care with your prescribing provider or other healthcare professionals.
Highly structured or manualized treatment. My approach is collaborative, flexible, and individualized rather than centered on a predetermined treatment protocol. If you're looking for a highly structured, step-by-step therapy program, another approach may be a better match.
Specialized treatment for OCD, trauma, or eating disorders. I work with clients experiencing OCD, trauma-related concerns, and eating-related difficulties when their needs align with my training and approach. However, some concerns may benefit from specialized treatment beyond what I provide. When appropriate, I can help clients explore additional or alternative treatment options.
Specialized addiction services. I treat substance use disorders within outpatient psychotherapy but do not provide detoxification, medically supervised withdrawal, medication management, or intensive addiction treatment.
A higher level of care or immediate crisis support. My practice is not equipped to provide emergency intervention, continuous safety monitoring, or intensive services such as partial hospitalization or residential treatment.
In-person therapy. My practice is exclusively telehealth. For children participating directly in therapy, this means they need to be able to communicate verbally and engage meaningfully in virtual sessions.
Having a particular diagnosis or experiencing complex challenges doesn't automatically mean we wouldn't be a good fit.
What matters is whether my approach, training, and available services align with the support you're seeking.
If you're unsure, I welcome you to reach out so we can explore whether working together makes sense.
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Finding the right therapist is a personal process, and it's okay if you're not sure what you're looking for yet.
You might appreciate my approach if you're interested in understanding yourself rather than simply finding strategies to change your behavior. I believe in exploring what's already working for you, what might be creating difficulties, and what you actually want to change. Sometimes that means developing new skills, while other times it means learning to work with your natural tendencies rather than against them.
I believe a strong therapeutic relationship involves feeling heard, respected, and comfortable being yourself. Our initial conversations are an opportunity to explore your goals, preferences, and whether my approach aligns with what you're looking for.
Therapeutic fit is also something we can continue evaluating together. If something isn't working, I welcome that conversation. Your feedback matters, and therapy should be a collaborative process.
Exploring Autism, ADHD & Neurodivergence
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No. You do not need a formal autism or ADHD diagnosis to begin therapy with me.
I work with people who have been formally diagnosed, identify as neurodivergent, or are exploring whether autism or ADHD might help explain their experiences.
For many people, particularly those exploring neurodivergence in adulthood, this process involves reflecting on lifelong patterns, understanding sensory, emotional, and social experiences, exploring masking or burnout, and reconsidering how they've learned to navigate the world.
Therapy can provide a space to explore these questions without pressure to reach a particular conclusion or adopt a specific label.
While I do not provide formal psychological testing, I can help you better understand your experiences, explore whether pursuing an evaluation would be meaningful to you, and identify ways to support your needs regardless of diagnostic status. If you decide to pursue an evaluation, I can also help you explore options for finding a neurodiversity-affirming provider.
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Exploring autism or ADHD in therapy looks different for everyone. You might be questioning whether you're neurodivergent, processing a recent diagnosis, or seeking a deeper understanding of experiences you've had throughout your life.
My approach focuses on understanding you as a whole person rather than viewing individual traits or challenges in isolation. Together, we can explore your communication, emotions, relationships, sensory needs, and executive functioning, as well as experiences of masking or burnout. We'll also consider how your environment, life experiences, and the expectations placed on you have shaped your understanding of yourself and the ways you've learned to navigate the world.
For some, diagnostic labels are important because they can provide clarity, validation, and help people access resources such as educational and workplace accommodations and disability-related benefits. Others may prefer to explore their experiences without focusing on a particular label. There's no single right way to approach this process, and your relationship with diagnosis may change over time.
Whether you have a formal diagnosis or not, my goal is to help you better understand your experiences, recognize your needs, and explore ways of living that feel more authentic and sustainable.
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Yes. Neurodivergent burnout, including experiences often described as autistic burnout, can involve profound exhaustion, reduced capacity, increased sensory sensitivities, difficulty concentrating or managing everyday demands, and feeling overwhelmed by things that previously seemed manageable.
In therapy, we can explore what might be contributing to burnout, including masking, sensory overload, ongoing stress, and the pressure to meet expectations that may not align with your needs or capacity.
Rather than assuming that returning to your previous level of functioning is the goal, we'll consider whether that level was realistic, sustainable, and aligned with your needs. Together, we can explore ways to reduce unnecessary demands, recognize your limits, identify supports, and develop more sustainable ways of navigating daily life.
The goal isn't simply to help you do more. It's to better understand your needs and create a life that allows room for your well-being, relationships, and the things that matter to you.
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Masking refers to the ways people may consciously or unconsciously adjust, suppress, or conceal aspects of themselves to meet social expectations, avoid negative reactions, or navigate different environments. For neurodivergent people, this might involve hiding sensory discomfort, suppressing natural communication styles, or putting significant effort into behaving as others expect.
Over time, masking can become so automatic that you may not recognize when you're doing it. You might even find it difficult to identify your own needs, preferences, or ways of expressing yourself outside of the expectations you've learned to meet.
Unmasking involves exploring these patterns and making more intentional choices about how you express yourself and respond to your needs. It doesn't necessarily mean abandoning every strategy you've developed or behaving the same way in every environment.
In therapy, we can explore when and why you've learned to mask, how these patterns may have helped or protected you, and what they might be costing you. We can also work toward recognizing your needs, reconnecting with your preferences, and identifying where you have opportunities to express yourself more authentically.
Masking isn't always a choice, and unmasking isn't always safe or practical. Understanding these patterns can help you navigate the balance between authenticity, safety, and the realities of your environment.
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Yes. Sensory sensitivities and executive functioning differences can affect many aspects of daily life, including work, relationships, routines, emotional well-being, and managing everyday responsibilities.
In therapy, we can work together to develop your individual sensory profile, exploring your sensory preferences and sensitivities, as well as what helps you feel comfortable and regulated. We can also explore how you navigate everyday demands, including getting started on tasks, organizing, transitioning between activities, and balancing competing priorities.
From there, we can identify practical supports that fit your needs, whether that means making changes to your environment, finding alternative ways to approach tasks, or adjusting expectations and demands that may not align with your capacity.
If you'd benefit from additional specialized support, I can also help you connect with occupational therapists who work with sensory processing and daily functioning. Occupational therapy can complement our work together by providing additional tools and individualized support.
My Approach to Therapy
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Our first session is an opportunity for us to get to know each other and begin exploring what brings you to therapy.
Rather than following a rigid interview format, I generally take a conversational approach. We'll talk about your current concerns, relevant experiences, and what you're hoping to gain from therapy. I may ask questions about your history, relationships, and other aspects of your life to help me better understand you and your circumstances.
You don't need to arrive with clearly defined goals or know exactly where to start. We can figure that out together, and there's no expectation that you share everything about yourself right away. Building trust is part of our work together, and I believe it's my responsibility to earn that trust rather than expect it from the start.
You're also encouraged to ask questions, share preferences, or let me know if something about the process feels uncomfortable. Our first session is just as much an opportunity for you to get a sense of me and my approach as it is for me to get to know you.
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Therapy sessions are held virtually and are generally conversational and flexible, with room to explore what's most relevant to you. Some sessions might focus on processing experiences, understanding emotions, or recognizing patterns, while others may involve problem-solving, developing practical strategies, or working through a particular challenge.
I encourage clients to take an active role in shaping our work together. You don't need to have a specific agenda for every session, but it helps to have a general sense of what you'd like to explore or work toward in therapy. If you're unsure what that looks like or how to participate in the process, that's something we can figure out together, too.
Depending on your needs and preferences, we might incorporate visuals, worksheets, or other resources during sessions. I can also share materials in advance if you prefer having time to review and process information beforehand.
When we identify specific strategies or action steps to try between sessions, we'll also consider potential barriers and whether those steps are realistic given your current circumstances and capacity. If something doesn't work out as planned, we can approach that experience with curiosity and self-compassion rather than treating it as a personal failure. It may tell us something important about the strategy, the timing, or the support you need.
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My approach to therapy is primarily person-centered and relational. I place a strong emphasis on getting to know you as an individual, understanding your experiences within the context of your life, and building a collaborative therapeutic relationship.
I believe the therapeutic relationship itself can provide opportunities for healing and new relational experiences. Because patterns that emerge in our work together may also show up in other relationships, I encourage us to openly explore our interactions, including moments of misunderstanding, discomfort, or disagreement. These conversations can help us better understand your relational experiences and explore different ways of navigating them.
I also incorporate concepts and techniques from established therapeutic approaches, such as Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), alongside interventions that focus on emotional awareness and processing, attachment, and interpersonal dynamics. Rather than following a single, highly structured treatment model, I draw on different interventions based on the concerns we're addressing and the goals we're working toward.
Many traditional therapeutic approaches were not originally developed with neurodivergent people in mind, and research on how well different interventions work for autistic and ADHD individuals is still evolving. For this reason, I don't assume that a particular approach or technique will be appropriate simply because it's widely used or supported by research in other populations.
I use the available research alongside my clinical experience and your individual needs and preferences to guide our work. We can also evaluate how well different approaches are working and make adjustments together.
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If you've tried therapy before and didn't find it helpful, that doesn't necessarily mean therapy can't be helpful for you. There are many reasons why a particular therapeutic approach or relationship might not be the right fit, and therapy doesn't benefit everyone in the same way.
I'm interested in understanding your previous experiences with therapy, including what felt helpful, what didn't, and what you might want to be different this time. I also recognize that some people have felt misunderstood or invalidated in therapy, and that these experiences can be harmful. These difficulties may also arise when therapeutic approaches don't adequately account for someone's communication style, sensory needs, neurodivergent experiences, or individual circumstances.
We can explore those experiences together and use what we learn to inform how we approach our work. I encourage ongoing conversations about what's working and what isn't, so we can make adjustments rather than continuing with something that doesn't feel helpful.
Parenting & Family Support
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Yes! I work with parents and caregivers of autistic and ADHD children, including families who are still exploring whether neurodivergence may be part of their child's experience.
Parenting a neurodivergent child can involve navigating needs, expectations, and challenges that aren't always well understood or supported by traditional parenting advice. Our work might involve better understanding your child's experiences and behaviors, exploring communication and regulation strategies, navigating school or family challenges, and finding approaches that work for your particular family.
I also recognize that parents have their own needs, emotions, histories, and challenges. Supporting your child doesn't mean ignoring your own well-being, and our work can include exploring how to balance everyone's needs within the family as best as possible.
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Absolutely! Your child doesn't need to be receiving therapy with me, or with another provider, for you to seek parenting support.
Our sessions can focus on your experiences as a parent, including the challenges you're navigating, the questions you're working through, and how your relationship with your child affects you both. You don't need to wait until your child is struggling significantly to seek support.
Sometimes working with a parent independently can be a valuable way to support the family. Although I wouldn't be directly assessing or treating your child, we can explore your understanding of their experiences, consider different perspectives, and identify ways you might respond to situations within your relationship.
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Neurodiversity-affirming parenting support begins with understanding your child as an individual, including how they experience the world, communicate, process emotions, and respond to their environment.
Rather than focusing solely on changing behaviors, we'll explore what those behaviors might be communicating, what needs they may be meeting, and what factors could be contributing to challenges. This might involve considering sensory experiences, emotional regulation, executive functioning, communication differences, or expectations that don't align with your child's current capacity.
We can also explore how your own upbringing, expectations, and emotional responses influence your parenting experiences and relationship with your child. This may include finding ways to establish boundaries, navigate conflict, and support your child's development while respecting their autonomy and individual needs.
Being neurodiversity-affirming doesn't mean avoiding expectations or never encouraging change. It means approaching those decisions thoughtfully, with an understanding of your child's strengths, challenges, and circumstances.
My goal is to help you develop a deeper understanding of your child and yourself while finding approaches that are realistic and sustainable for your family.
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Yes. I provide individual therapy for children and adolescents who can meaningfully participate in virtual sessions. Whether telehealth is appropriate depends on the child's developmental needs, communication abilities, comfort with technology, and ability to engage in the therapeutic process.
My primary services are individual therapy and parenting support, but I may also invite parents, caregivers, siblings, or other family members to participate in sessions when it would be helpful and clinically appropriate. These sessions might focus on strengthening communication, understanding different perspectives, navigating conflict, or addressing challenges within family relationships.
The format of our work will depend on who's seeking support, the concerns being addressed, and what makes the most sense for everyone involved. We can discuss these considerations during an initial consultation to determine whether my services are a good fit for your family.
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Yes. I offer individual therapy for siblings of autistic, ADHD, and other neurodivergent individuals who may benefit from having space to explore their own experiences within their families.
Having a neurodivergent sibling can influence family relationships, routines, and expectations. Siblings may sometimes be asked to take on additional responsibilities, make accommodations, or navigate experiences that differ from those of their peers. These experiences can bring up a range of emotions, including feelings that may seem contradictory or difficult to express.
Our work can involve helping siblings better understand their neurodivergent family member while also making space for their own emotions, perspectives, and needs. We might explore family dynamics, communication, boundaries, and ways to express or advocate for their needs within the family.
My goal is to help siblings navigate the realities of family life, including situations where different family members have competing needs, while reinforcing that their own experiences and needs matter, too.
Appointments, Insurance & Getting Started
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I offer therapy exclusively through secure video sessions (telehealth) for clients located in Illinois.
Virtual therapy allows you to attend sessions from a private, comfortable location without needing to travel to an office. You're welcome to sit, lie down, rock, fidget, move around, or use sensory supports during our sessions. There's no expectation that you sit still, maintain eye contact, or engage in therapy in a particular way. I encourage you to do what helps you feel comfortable and engaged in the process.
Because I practice exclusively through telehealth, we'll also consider whether virtual sessions are an appropriate fit for your individual needs and circumstances.
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Yes! I'm in network with PPO plans through the following insurance companies:
Blue Cross Blue Shield (BCBS)
Aetna
Cigna / Evernorth
UnitedHealthcare (UHC) / Optum
Insurance coverage varies by plan, so I encourage prospective clients to verify their specific benefits before beginning therapy. My billing company can also assist with verifying benefits and estimating out-of-pocket costs.
For clients paying out of pocket, my standard session fee is $220. I recognize that therapy can be a significant financial commitment. If you're paying out of pocket and the standard fee presents a barrier, I'm happy to discuss whether a reduced rate might be possible based on your circumstances and my availability.
If you have insurance that I'm not in network with, you may be eligible for out-of-network reimbursement depending on your plan's benefits.
We can discuss fees, insurance, and payment options during an initial consultation.
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Getting started begins with reaching out! You can contact me through my website to ask questions, share a little about what you're looking for, or inquire about scheduling an appointment. You can also visit my secure SimplePractice client portal, linked in the footer of this website, to view my availability and request an appointment directly.
Depending on your needs and preferences, we may begin with a free initial consultation or schedule an intake appointment directly. A consultation gives us an opportunity to briefly discuss what brings you to therapy, what you're hoping to find in a therapist, and whether my services might be a good fit. You're also welcome to ask questions about my approach, scheduling, insurance, or anything else that would help you decide whether you'd like to move forward.
Before your first appointment, you'll receive an email with a link to your secure SimplePractice client portal, where you can complete the necessary intake paperwork and review information about what to expect. On the morning of each appointment, I'll email you an individualized link to join our virtual session.
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Most clients begin therapy with recurring weekly or biweekly appointments, depending on their needs, goals, and circumstances. For clients who need more frequent support, twice-weekly sessions may also be an option when clinically appropriate and scheduling allows.
I generally reserve a consistent appointment time for each client to provide structure and continuity, although more flexible, week-to-week scheduling may be possible depending on availability.
As you make progress in therapy, we may decide to meet less frequently, such as once a month. Session frequency can also increase during periods when additional support is needed.
We'll discuss scheduling and session frequency together, taking into consideration your therapeutic needs, preferences, and my availability.
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I ask that clients provide at least 24 hours' notice if they need to cancel or reschedule an appointment. Appointments canceled with less than 24 hours' notice, as well as missed appointments, are subject to a $75 fee.
I understand that unexpected circumstances, illnesses, and emergencies happen. I approach these situations with compassion and consider exceptions to the cancellation fee on a case-by-case basis.
If you need to cancel or reschedule, please let me know as soon as possible so we can discuss the available options.